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Sunday, December 11, 2011

Up to 30% off @ EdenFantasys

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I was just on EdenFantasys website and I saw that there are some nice little deals going on

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You can't use the discounts on sale items though, only regular prized items.  It doesn't say when the discounts end though, so if you plan on buying, I would hurry if you want to use the discount codes.

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Saturday, December 10, 2011

Review: SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman

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Allured or intrigued by S/M sexuality, but not sure where to start? No book will give you a more thorough introduction -- learn about safety, styles of play from bondage and flagellation to psychological dominance and submission, and tips for finding a partner. Ideal for beginners of all orientations. Don't miss the resource list. 1993, 249 pp. description taken from here.

I had always heard amazing things said about Jay Wiseman's books.  SM 101  is a great book.  I loved how Jay wrote it.  There was no "preaching" that this is right or wrong, that people should think this and not that, etc.  He gave straight information, and was upfront that opinions of these things differ for whether or not people consider some things safe or not, going too far or not, etc.  He said that he, and everyone else out there, is not a know-it-all, profession when it comes to this topic.  Things are always changing, evolving, and opinions can differ greatly.  Not everyone knows everything.  Period.  And, this that what Jay tells you.

There aren't any "hot spots" in the book, no sexual stories of experiences, etc.  There is only information; and great information at that.  On the side of the pages there are little boxes with one quote per box.  I can't wait to turn the page for a new quote (seriously).  I think for me, it added a special touch, something that made the book more at-home-cozy and personal.  One quote that I liked was "Nowadays, a woman is free  to want anything except to sometimes give up her freedom." (page 250)

Just to give you an idea of what the book covers, I am going to include the table of contents:

  • finding partners
  • bondage 1A
  • bondage 1B
  • giving and receiving erotic pain
  • flagellation
  • clamps
  • lubricants
  • erotic "torture"
  • humiliation
  • dominant/submissive interactions
  • SM relationships
  • SM organizations
  • general safety considerations
  • SM and safer sex
  • a novice women's guide to erotically dominating a man
  • constructing an SM starter set
  • SM sayings

This really is a great introduction into SM and it offers quite a bit on SM relationships as well, which is really nice.

SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman is $24.95

**I received this item in order to write a real and honest review. I was not paidto paid to write this review.  All thoughts and opinions are 100% my own.**